@spectre @mutageno Too many people are focused on their income when it comes to finances while they ignore their expenditures, so it is no wonder that "just make more money" is the start and end of their thought processes. The 12K/y amount would be unfathomable for those who are unwilling to even consider looking at their expenses.
This gets even worse for a married man whose wife's "solution" to finances is "he needs to make more money." A good wife would have efficient spending practices.
@kaiservenom If anti-vaxxers were really doing what they did out of hate, they would tell all their enemies to get the vaxx. Considering that they (correctly) considered the mRNA shots far too risky to take despite the propaganda. They said as loudly as they could to everyone (including enemies) not to take the shots.
Also, for these people, anything short of ducking Fauci's dick is considered "hate."
No, I am not repulsively ugly, nor am I an incel (given that I am married). And I have had women attracted to me (in some cases I did not know about it right away). But if you are going to be disingenuous when it comes to relationships, I don't think my brand of autism is going to be very appealing to deal with. I am going to be far more than those women bargained for. Might not be true for other autists, but I think it might be for me.
I have often wondered how I have been strangely immune to ever having to deal with a truly toxic women in relationships. I speculate that it has to do with my Asperger's. Not because of any ability on my end conferred with said autism, but rather that I think my autism created protection mechanism that made having a relationship with me far too costly if you were just going to try and use me. Sometimes aspects that are otherwise detriments have positive sides to it.
@deprecated_ii Tell me this image is photoshopped. But I am going to guess no there. I am no construction expert, but that monstrosity had to have taken more time and effort to give it that appearance than if they just did it normally. He'll, it does not have to be entirely old fashioned, just not an abomination to the eyes would suffice.
@Communist_Single_Mom @WashedOutGundamPilot The "treatment" for autism is learning how to be more aware of social cues and how to interact with others better. That is indeed not a therapy thing, but just a series of everyday trials you have to overcome until you learn how to not be so spergy.
I know this from my own life (probably) having Asperger's. And even if you are not an actual autist, if you have the same struggles, the remedy is the same. So an official diagnosis is just a formality.
What I really despise about much of the controlled opposition right is that they will get all up in arms about how the Twitter files revealed that there was cover ups about Hunter Biden laptop and Covid, but they will not even raise the question whether or not this would also extend to election rigging.
"Sure, they lied about those things, but they would never lie about THAT!"
Yes, they are controlled opposition, but those who follow them are should really start questioning if they should.
@sj_zero @gucciloafers Well, he is a motivational speaker. So yes.
@deprecated_ii Correct. There is no foolproof way to meet a wife. Like all other types of success, you need preparation and opportunity.
And yes, having "more options" becomes counterintuitive because you have a whole lot of people refusing to settle for reasonable options right in front of them with the idea that they will be able to perpetually roll the dice and get an even better deal. While this applies to both men and women, I see it as a bigger problem for women than men.
@deprecated_ii @Paultron @professionalbigot69 @Turdicus @WashedOutGundamPilot I am thankful to have been off the market for years due to being married, and I can say that I have no advice to give to replicate my success. It was the grace of God that got me a wife, and while online dating mostly sucks, I managed to meet her there.
If you are fortunate enough to find a marriageable woman, hold on to her fast. Most likely you won't be finding another. Esp. since most of them are already married.
@mutageno Remove the motivation for those men to even try, everyone is worse off. We are sort of already seeing that in action, but we have not seen anything yet. Yes, no one is entitled to a relationship, but women like this only be able to have this pickiness due to our high standards of living. Remove those high standards, and suddenly Hugo the ugly plumber starts to look a little more attractive when no one can afford to keep whatever bullshit job she currently has.
@mutageno Let's see how bitchy she is when the heat no longer works in her home, when the water is no longer running, when the waste is no longer being disposed of, when infrastructure is no longer fixed, when food is no longer available at grocery stores. Chances are, there are some ugly men involved in those occupations required to give her the convenient life she takes for granted so that she can have whatever bullshit career her "advanced degree" gives her.
@mutageno Fine with me. I want this sort of thing out in the open rather than entertaining the lie that women are virtuous angels that are above superficiality.
If men understand this, women like her will come to understand that she should have lowered expectations for how she is treated and how advanced society is. Whether we want to admit it, men are motivated to work hard in attempt to attract women.
Looks like this will be my new home. Warning: I (probably) have Asperger's, so my be prepared for my autism to show through.
I don't think I am a right wing extremist, but I am sure anyone with low testosterone might think otherwise.